This whole week, I have felt like I’m living in the eye of a tornado ... a tornado created by the quarter- and half-adults living around me. If I stay in one spot, everything is pretty good and stays clean. But, that’s impossible for a mom because the laundry must be moved and folded, dinner must be prepared, the baby’s diaper needs changing, etc. These tasks can’t be completed in the same room – at least not in my house – so the ‘eye’ moves.
We’ve been trying to clean the house this whole week because it’s needed it. The kids are enlisted in this task – that gives them ownership of the cleanliness right??? It’ll make them want to keep that particular room clean, right???
NO. BIG. FAT. NO.
My husband told me last night I have to create realistic expectations. Just what is THAT at this point in my life.
I need carmel corn, lots of carmel corn, and Dr. Pepper.
Suzie, I am sorry you are feeling SO frustrated! I understand, though. I can't believe how quickly everything seems to fall apart, after we just get done putting it together. UGH! And that ownership part is a challenge. They just don't get it ... yet. It is very hard when, as mothers/homemakers, we take our role seriously and truly desire a well-ordered and peaceful home. God bless you, Suzie. I will pray for you.
ReplyDeleteI would love to sit with you, feet up, munching on carmel corn and drinking anything diet.
ReplyDeleteI know!!!! I am always amazed at how one child will sweep or clean the bathroom and then not care if it they throw crumbs on the floor or get toothpaste all over immediately afterward!!!!!
ReplyDeleteDrives me crazy.
Diet Coke? Regular popcorn. I'm there.
geez, you made me laugh outloud.
ReplyDeleteI always find it amazing that they still throw wrappers on the floor.
Hello? each time I tell them "NO! the wrapper goes in the trash."
I feel so oeverwhelmed when this house gets messy. I want to sit down to homeschool in a nice, neat, sunshiney room....so help me I do!
Suz, Just trying again to leave a comment about your blog. Usually I can remember the day only too fondly - as challenging as they were - you will think back in about 30 years and only the good times will be recalled. Gods infinite mercy on the toil of motherhood! So proud of you and all you accomplish each day. Love & Prayers, MOM
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