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Saturday, August 30, 2014

Lily is HOME!

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Around noon today, September 30, 2014, and 10 days after she went missing, Lily has been returned to us!  A neighbor’s son-in-law heard her whimpers and took the time to look around.  He saw her with her paws on the windowsill and head out the broken out window on the second story of an abandoned farmhouse.  This farmhouse was within our search area, but we didn’t hear or see her during the time we were in the area.

She is very thin, but was happy to be back on the farm.  We are all thrilled she’s back.  It’s definitely a lesson in not giving up hope.  Thank you to all the friends and family who kept up the prayers and for locals who kept their eyes and ears open. 

Tuesday, March 25, 2014

Our Homeschool Challenge

Electronics.  When, how much time, what kind, which software, where do we put it?  Ughhh.  Being a parent is tough in this electronic age.  Both Eric and I use electronics for volunteer work and career, so it’s a part of our lives.

One of our children, Greg, will most likely study and work in a field saturated with electronic devices.  He started young and just never lost his fascination with all things computer and electronic.  It’s been a challenge figuring out how to encourage his enthusiasm without letting him go overboard, and yet figure out how to keep him interested in the ‘more boring’ (according to him) subject areas involving literature/English, writing skills, history, geography, music, art, etc. 

He likes science, but takes forever to work through his chapters.  Math, thank goodness isn’t hard for him, but he’d been stalled on a topic for over a month because it challenged him and he couldn’t figure it out as easily.  I don’t think it would have stalled him this long if he’d have spent a consistent amount of time on the topic each day, but I could NOT find a way to encourage or motivate him.  At his age, I cannot make him physically do tasks.  I cannot make him learn!  He has to want to do these things.

I suppose he’s been what you call a challenging child or unmotivated learner (when it doesn’t coincide with his purposes) or a difficult student.  And he is.  However, he is intelligent and none of the above mentioned subjects are hard for him.  I’ve seen him write A+ papers and do it in a short amount of time.  He can read well and make his way through what he refers to as ‘the most boring book’ he’s ever read and then write an essay…all without taking notes.  (Not that I haven’t encouraged note-taking, he just doesn’t agree.)

We’ve tried an endless variety of ideas, strategies, and the like to ‘change’ his attitude and study/work ethic.  They haven’t worked or only work for a time.

He’ll be a senior next year.  While I rejoice with relief that he’ll soon be graduating, my husband and I also find ourselves thinking of all the times he’s helped us with electronic/computer issues when we didn’t want to take the time to correct problems ourselves.  He’s much quicker, anyway.  Also, I find myself thinking about the days when I won’t have to struggle EVERY SINGLE DAY to motivate him!  I have wanted to give up; I really have.  But, I haven’t.  I’ve threatened so send him to public school, but I haven’t.  It it really an option? 

Eric has encouraged sending him to school; friends have encouraged sending him to school; and grandparents have encouraged sending him to school.  Yet, he remains here in our homeschool.  Even when I felt our relationship was at an extremely low point, homeschooling still presented itself, in my heart, as the best option. 

Home is the best place for him right now.

Greg knows this; I know this; his dad knows this.  Some days he listens better than others.  Some days are pure torture for one or the other!  This homeschooling route is really hard; I couldn’t do it without grace. 

Regardless of the obstacles, Greg and I continue to work on our relationship.  It’s evolved over time, thank goodness.  I thought we’d forever be stuck at opposing ends and he’d never want to come home after leaving for college, but I don’t think that anymore. 

And that is awesome.

Sunday, May 19, 2013

Just stuff

Since this is my record/journal, I’m using it to record dates and facts I want to remember.  It helps me keep my head on straight sometimes to be able to look back!  I’m not sure it will be interesting to everyone, so just skip it if it doesn’t appeal.


1. I helped plan and facilitate a Reconciliation Retreat for the second graders in our parish on April 28th.  To my knowledge, this is a first for our parish.  Their teacher and I (in my role as DRE) are trying to implement diocesan guidelines.  The retreat, in my mind, was a success.  I switched out the saint play-acting with rosary making and the kids LOVED it!  It was gratifying to see them enjoy the activities and stations that their teacher and I planned out.  The diocese actually has a script we can follow, but we are able to add our own activities or choose those we want to include.  One young girl even said, “I thought this was going to be boring, but I’m having a lot of fun!”  This was said while we were making rosaries.  At least one parent per child was asked to attend, and they had a parent session with our priest.  I’m so thankful he was willing to give a talk.  I still need to talk with parents to get their perspective on the afternoon.

This happened to be the same day that Eric and Angelina were at the Aerospace Camp, so Zeke came along to watch Marcus.  So thankful the weather was decent so he could stroll around outside!  He’s such a good big brother.


2. Angelina ‘got’ shingles.  Yes, my not even thirteen-year-old daughter has been dealing with shingles.  They are on her upper right chest, go under her arm and around to her back.  They also travel down her right arm to just above the elbow.

When she first showed me, I thought it was just a rash or reaction to an environmental allergen.  But, then, as I sat and continued what I was doing, the pattern of the rash (which at the time was a patch on her upper check, a spot under her arm, and a patch on her back) started to bother me.  Within a very short time, it occurred to me that it could be shingles.  Both the pattern and the ‘texture’ of the rash were typical of shingles.  But, in a child so young?!?

It was too late in the day to make an appointment (May 9), so I called asap the next morning.  When asked why I was calling, I said something like, “Well, I know this sounds impossible, but to my non-medical eye, I believe my daughter has shingles.”  And then I described the rash.  Thankfully we were able to get her in to the clinic that afternoon.

They physician was skeptical as first, too.  But I said, “Wait until you see the rash, and you’ll see why I think it’s shingles.”  She then examined Angelina, and it was almost comical to see her reaction and expression of agreement.  It’s so rare for a child, you see.  And the kicker is that Angelina did not have the vaccine, she really had chicken pox.  For some reason I expected if she had a real case of chicken pox, any onset of shingles would come at a much later point in life. 

The physician did some research in the office…her database didn’t show any cases in children my daughter’s age.  I assume they just haven’t been recorded…I believe there are more cases, but maybe they were more mild than Angelina’s.  Anyway, the physician prescribed Acyclovir – 5 times each day.

The medication (which, by the way, is the first medication Angelina has EVER taken) really helped shorted the length of the shingles.  They scabbed over quickly, and the tingling pain subsided.  I pray she doesn’t have to go through this again, but contrary to common belief, you can get shingles multiple times.

At this point, the rash blisters are healed and it’s not inflamed and red.  You can still see where she was affected, though.  I am not sure how long that will take to fade.

And the three youngest boys have been exposed …maybe.  They can get chicken pox from shingles (we do not vaccinate for chicken pox), if they are exposed to the liquid from the blisters.  Shingles is not a respiratory ailment like chicken pox, so contagion is not as easy or as great if the rash/blisters are kept covered.  So, we’ll see.  I wouldn’t mind the boys getting chicken pox, but it’ll make for an interesting couple months if they do come down with it.  Prayers for God’s will appreciated because I’m not sure of my will!


3. It’s finally starting to green up.  The trees JUST budded out last week and the grass is greening up.  I even went out last week to see if any were living because buds weren’t visible!  Turns out the trees know what’s going on with the weather. 

I am worried about the landscaping we had done in the fall.  Hopefully everything will make it…but I have a feeling we’ll have the company replace at least a few plants/shrubs that winter-killed.

Last night was the first measurable rain we’ve had in some time and it was needed.  After so many wet years, this is a very different kind of Spring.  I like rain and not having to water the gardens and lawn.

The trees we ordered through the soil conservation service arrived on Friday, too:  two honeycrisp apple, one connell red apple, five black chokeberry and five golden currant.  The five nanking cherry were backordered.  Now to determine where I’ll plant!  You’d think I would have figured that out before placing the order, but I was not thinking as clearly and just wanted bit of Spring.

Sunday, March 31, 2013

March 17-31, 2013

Lent was good.  Even though it didn’t go as I planned, it went as HE planned.  And, His plan is infinitely better than mine. 

In these weeks, Eric and I started teaching NFP again after a 1.5 year hiatus.  Dash competed in the State FFA Crop Judging Contest and received a silver placing.  Our county hosted their annual Family Fun Night.  Lent ended and Holy Week began. 

All the kids, except for Dash and Angelina, took the whole week of school off.  Dash used the week to catch up and Angelina just needed to finish up a couple days in Latin.  I call it our Spring Break; we needed a break!

On Friday and Saturday, we did a bit of baking.  This lamb mold was on sale after Easter last year, and it was fun to use it this year.  It was amazingly easy to bake and decorate.  Just use a large star tip and it’s covered up in no time at all.  I used a black decorating pen for the eyes, nose & mouth.

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Angelina and the boys made sugar cookies and frosted them on Saturday.  Each kid had a job – Angelina is very good at organizing who does what!  She sounds like me…I’m not sure that is a good thing sometimes.

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And, Marcus is mobile.  He’s not fast, but he uses his hands and his right foot to scoot around and get where he wants.  His left foot and leg are usually up in the air!  It’s too cute.

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We didn’t dye eggs, we grow them!  The Easter Egger’s lay colorful eggs and then the last two years, I’ve just written on the eggs with food pens.  The kids decorate with stickers…and we’re done!  Colorful, cute and easy.

Angelina had a new dress for Easter; I wish I’d have taken a picture.  I was thankful that I fit into some of my favorite outfits (FINALLY). 

This year, our family attended Holy Thursday Mass, Good Friday services, and the Easter Vigil.  Every. Single. One. Of. Us.  I’m not saying that everyone stayed awake!  This being the third vigil I have attended, I finally felt like the readings made sense or clicked with me.  Probably I wasn’t able to listen the other times I’ve attended…the first I had a busy 1yo (Dash) and last year I was pregnant and kind-of miserable.  This vigil just made an impression on me…makes me want to do it all over again.

Alleluia! 

He is Risen!

Happy Easter!

The kids checked out their Easter baskets on Sunday morning.  The family headed over to Grandma & Grandpa Green Acres’ home for a wonderful dinner followed by a choice of desserts.  The kids played and watched TV while Eric and I enjoyed visiting.

Wednesday, February 13, 2013

6 months …gone in a flash!

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The months truly do go way too fast.  Six months on February 12, 2013.

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He really looks like a Lahlum in the above picture.  I can see Miller in him quite often, but that one is all Lahlum.

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We went to Mass tonight, as Angelina had another commitment on Wednesday night.  Marcus was so wiggly that I had to hold his head steady for Father to make the sign of the cross!

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So, our Lent has begun…

…and my baby is six months old.

Tuesday, December 25, 2012

Christmas 2012

 

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Dash, middle, with his Lahlum cousins.  They get together at least once each year and always have a good time goofing off together.

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Zeke, Angelina & Graham at G&G Green Acres’ home for Christmas.  Graham below, waiting for Grandpa Green Acres to read Wilbur’s Christmas Gift by Rodney R. Nelson.  It’s one of my favorite’s by a ND author.

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Tante Lori with Marcus.  We spent Christmas Eve with Grandma & Grandpa Green Acres’ home.  Audrey always makes an amazing meal.  Afterwards we listened to Grandpa read and then opened gifts.

 

Christmas morning, we went to church and came home to open our own gifts.

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This was Marcus’s favorite…Sophie giraffe.

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Angelina (above) & Greg (below).

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Zeke (above) and Marcus below.

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Louis had a fun time opening his gifts.  He received an NDSU football outfit from Grandma & Grandpa Golden Acres.

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All the youngest Miller grandsons received the NDSU football ‘pack’.  They were all thrilled!

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Louis made gifts for everyone this year.  His sister is so good at doing crafts with him throughout the year.

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Zeke is pretty impressed with his donut maker!

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Dash helped Marcus open his ‘big’ gift.

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The kids have ALL been playing with Playmobil the last couple months.  There are a lot of little pieces, so not sure I’ll leave it out once Marcus is mobile.  But, it’s been a great toy for our kids.

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Merry Christmas!

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Marcus’s First Christmas.

P.S.  I should note that I’m writing this up in APRIL during a BLIZZARD.  It doesn’t really seem odd to be talking about Christmas because it’s snowing to beat the band outside and this storm will most likely dump more snow than we’ve seen from any other storm this past winter.  We are in the 10”-12” snow-band.  What a crazy ‘Spring’!!