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Tuesday, January 21, 2014

It’s been a long time…

What can I say?  I’ve been in survival mode and something had to give.  Giving up blogging gave me more time and my presence was needed here, in my home.  Whether I wanted to be ‘here’ or not!  And believe me, I’d have rather been somewhere else.  Somewhere quiet, sipping Chai tea, or heaven-forbid…an adult drink. 

Maybe I’d be wearing an outfit that actually flattered me (beyond jeans and an old t-shirt) or wear a bit of jewelry.  I do have jewelry, it just isn’t worn very often because I’m afraid it’ll get ripped off my neck or out of my ears.  At some point in the last few months, I decided I didn’t care if the jewelry was broken.  What good is the jewelry sitting in my drawer?  It’s meant to be worn and I plan to enjoy wearing it as long as it lasts.

Today, I scheduled a haircut.  Pretty sad that I cannot remember the last time I had my hair cut.  I can remember my last confession better; that’s a good thing, right?

So, what’s giving me the time to give a little of my time to blogging today?  One less child in school helps, the baby is older, we’re over the sickness that’s been going through the children, it’s a New Year, I’m feeling like I have something to share or give.  For the longest time, I didn’t FEEL like I had anything I could possibly give.  There just wasn’t anything there at the beginning of the day, much less at the end.

Not sure how regular I’ll be on posting, but I’m still here.  Today there is hope and I’m feeling a little more like the ‘normal’ me.

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Tuesday, May 21, 2013

4-H Communication Arts

 

Greg, Angelina, Zeke and Graham all competed in the county 4-H Communication Arts Contest.  All are eligible to advance to the District Contest.  Greg will be at the State FFA Convention, but the rest of the kids plan to attend and compete.  I was able to get pics of all but Greg & Angelina while they were visiting with the judges.

Graham went first!!  He’s a Cloverbud, so he can do a recitation of any length.  He chose ‘The Land of Counterpane’ by Robert Louis Stevenson.

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Zeke was up a little later.  He chose to talk about Joaquin Miller and recite his most famous poem, ‘Columbus.’ 

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Dash recited an excerpt from Theodore Roosevelt’s speech, ‘The Strenuous Life,’ given at the Chicago Hamilton Club.  I told Greg I chose it for him because I wanted him to learn something from it!  The title itself hints at the content; good lessons for a teen.

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Angelina chose to do a demonstration this year (again!).  She made birdseed ornaments and titled the demo ‘Treats for Tweets.’ 

All the kids did a nice job.  There are, of course, areas they could improve, but that’s what’s great about 4-H.  The judges did a great job of providing positive critique that can be applied to improve their presentations before the district contest in June.

 And, CAN YOU BELIEVE JUNE IS NEXT WEEKEND!!!

Sunday, May 19, 2013

Just stuff

Since this is my record/journal, I’m using it to record dates and facts I want to remember.  It helps me keep my head on straight sometimes to be able to look back!  I’m not sure it will be interesting to everyone, so just skip it if it doesn’t appeal.


1. I helped plan and facilitate a Reconciliation Retreat for the second graders in our parish on April 28th.  To my knowledge, this is a first for our parish.  Their teacher and I (in my role as DRE) are trying to implement diocesan guidelines.  The retreat, in my mind, was a success.  I switched out the saint play-acting with rosary making and the kids LOVED it!  It was gratifying to see them enjoy the activities and stations that their teacher and I planned out.  The diocese actually has a script we can follow, but we are able to add our own activities or choose those we want to include.  One young girl even said, “I thought this was going to be boring, but I’m having a lot of fun!”  This was said while we were making rosaries.  At least one parent per child was asked to attend, and they had a parent session with our priest.  I’m so thankful he was willing to give a talk.  I still need to talk with parents to get their perspective on the afternoon.

This happened to be the same day that Eric and Angelina were at the Aerospace Camp, so Zeke came along to watch Marcus.  So thankful the weather was decent so he could stroll around outside!  He’s such a good big brother.


2. Angelina ‘got’ shingles.  Yes, my not even thirteen-year-old daughter has been dealing with shingles.  They are on her upper right chest, go under her arm and around to her back.  They also travel down her right arm to just above the elbow.

When she first showed me, I thought it was just a rash or reaction to an environmental allergen.  But, then, as I sat and continued what I was doing, the pattern of the rash (which at the time was a patch on her upper check, a spot under her arm, and a patch on her back) started to bother me.  Within a very short time, it occurred to me that it could be shingles.  Both the pattern and the ‘texture’ of the rash were typical of shingles.  But, in a child so young?!?

It was too late in the day to make an appointment (May 9), so I called asap the next morning.  When asked why I was calling, I said something like, “Well, I know this sounds impossible, but to my non-medical eye, I believe my daughter has shingles.”  And then I described the rash.  Thankfully we were able to get her in to the clinic that afternoon.

They physician was skeptical as first, too.  But I said, “Wait until you see the rash, and you’ll see why I think it’s shingles.”  She then examined Angelina, and it was almost comical to see her reaction and expression of agreement.  It’s so rare for a child, you see.  And the kicker is that Angelina did not have the vaccine, she really had chicken pox.  For some reason I expected if she had a real case of chicken pox, any onset of shingles would come at a much later point in life. 

The physician did some research in the office…her database didn’t show any cases in children my daughter’s age.  I assume they just haven’t been recorded…I believe there are more cases, but maybe they were more mild than Angelina’s.  Anyway, the physician prescribed Acyclovir – 5 times each day.

The medication (which, by the way, is the first medication Angelina has EVER taken) really helped shorted the length of the shingles.  They scabbed over quickly, and the tingling pain subsided.  I pray she doesn’t have to go through this again, but contrary to common belief, you can get shingles multiple times.

At this point, the rash blisters are healed and it’s not inflamed and red.  You can still see where she was affected, though.  I am not sure how long that will take to fade.

And the three youngest boys have been exposed …maybe.  They can get chicken pox from shingles (we do not vaccinate for chicken pox), if they are exposed to the liquid from the blisters.  Shingles is not a respiratory ailment like chicken pox, so contagion is not as easy or as great if the rash/blisters are kept covered.  So, we’ll see.  I wouldn’t mind the boys getting chicken pox, but it’ll make for an interesting couple months if they do come down with it.  Prayers for God’s will appreciated because I’m not sure of my will!


3. It’s finally starting to green up.  The trees JUST budded out last week and the grass is greening up.  I even went out last week to see if any were living because buds weren’t visible!  Turns out the trees know what’s going on with the weather. 

I am worried about the landscaping we had done in the fall.  Hopefully everything will make it…but I have a feeling we’ll have the company replace at least a few plants/shrubs that winter-killed.

Last night was the first measurable rain we’ve had in some time and it was needed.  After so many wet years, this is a very different kind of Spring.  I like rain and not having to water the gardens and lawn.

The trees we ordered through the soil conservation service arrived on Friday, too:  two honeycrisp apple, one connell red apple, five black chokeberry and five golden currant.  The five nanking cherry were backordered.  Now to determine where I’ll plant!  You’d think I would have figured that out before placing the order, but I was not thinking as clearly and just wanted bit of Spring.

Friday, May 17, 2013

While the boys were away…

 

…we had some girls over to play.  I didn’t get a picture of the whole group, even though I intended to do so.  Oh well, we were just having too much fun.  Our 4-H club did a stencil painting project a couple months ago, and Miss T’s family wasn’t able to attend.  I promised that I’d have Miss T and her sister out to do more of the painting and this past weekend when the boys were away seemed perfect.  We invited another family, whose girls enjoyed the project and wanted to do more, as well. 

Angelina, Marcus and I headed to LaMoure to pick up Miss T and her sister after school was done (for the year for them) and then headed out to the country to pick up the other girls (who also finished up school for the year on Friday).  Five girls total, and the trip back to our farm was pretty quiet.  We’ve not done anything like this before, and truthfully, the girls didn’t know each other that well as they are different ages and attend different schools (though all attend the same church). 

Once they all got going on the painting, though, they let the quietness fall to the side and really started to have fun.  Two of the girls painted plastic buckets and the other three did various glass objects.  Angelina and Miss T are shown below with a sampling of their work. 

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After completing the project they all went outside to do chores (gather eggs & other fun stuff) and then proceeded to just play.  One of the moms arrived and it was just so fun to sit and visit.  She wanted to clean up for me, but I didn’t let her!!  No regrets.  It was just pizza and paper plates.  I told her I was selfish and just wanted to visit. 

What a great, rare, girls night!

Father-Son Camping


FMCHE – our homeschool group – has an annual Father-Son Camping Trip.  This year it was at Itasca State Park in MN.  Eric has taken the boys each year (they’ve been at least two years old).  This year, Greg went out early on Thursday with friends.
Though Eric does this, it’s always during Spring planting.  However, it’s that bonding with ONLY boys that they need…and I think he (Eric) needs it, too.  To be around Catholic dads who support what we are doing and the goal we have in mind.
So, Friday, May 17, 2013 at around 3pm, they were packed and ready to leave the farm.  It’s about a three hour drive to Itasca. 
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Louis, with his new ‘Cars’ fishing rod, above.  Graham fishing, below.  Eric said they caught a few fish.  One of the other dads is gracious enough to clean the fish and they’re usually eaten that day.
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Oh, yeah.  It typically rains during their trip.  It makes Eric feel better about leaving the farm (this year we need the rain)!  And, it makes for wet everything at the campsite.  Raining makes it more of an adventure…wouldn’t ya say?
The guys are usually back Sunday afternoon, but with the rain here, it might be later this evening.

Wednesday, May 15, 2013